me & kerry celebrating health and hope

I caught up with her this week at the L’Oreal Paris “Health & Hope Breakfast,” and we talked symptoms, risk factors, and the importance of knowing your family history. Washington is as lovely in person as she is on screen, but she’s more than just a pretty face fronting a campaign. She’s informed, aware, and compassionate. Now, if we could just get her some teal poms-poms. Check out what she had to say in our Q&A.

CS: Kerry, you often talk about getting involved with Color of Hope, in part, because your mom is a breast cancer survivor. Knowing your family history is important for women who may be at risk for ovarian and breast cancers. Have you become more vigilant about your own health, doctor’s visits, and screenings since your mom’s diagnosis?

KW: Yes. My passion for raising awareness was born around my mother’s diagnosis. I’ve been given an opportunity to support women’s cancer issues in my personal and professional lives. It was really difficult at first when my mom got diagnosed, but our family talked about it, and it wasn’t just the “C word” anymore. She put it all on the table, and, as a result, we developed fluidity around talking about health in our family. I think as women, we tend not to talk to our physicians and ob/gyns. I’ve been to see mine so many times, but we really talked for the first time about health and cancer risks after my mom’s diagnosis. Women are not taught to talk about our bodies. We’re taught to say “down there.” We’re not taught to say vagina, uterus, ovaries — the proper biological terms for our anatomy. I think we have to break free from the stigmas we assign to our bodies.

CS: Looking good goes a long way toward feeling good, especially for women survivors who are likely to lose their hair, eyebrows, and eyelashes. You work in an industry where your physical appearance is always on display. What advice would you give to women who, because of their treatment, shed the things we associate with beauty and attractiveness?

KW: I think the thing that women dealing with this disease have to focus on is building themselves up when they start to feel down. You may be losing your hair, but you can still be beautiful. I’m terrified of sounding hokey, but the L’Oreal slogan — “Because you’re worth it” — is so important. I felt like here’s a campaign that realizes it can’t just be a catalyst. It actually has to encourage women to truly take care of themselves. Maybe you might start wearing lipstick or have great cheekbones that you could show off. You have to celebrate yourself even when you’re feeling at your worst. On days when I’m not feeling so together, I’ll call my girlfriend and complain, and she tells me to go put on some heels, get pretty, and get out in the world. Half of life is showing up.

CS: President Obama wants to double funding for cancer research during his term, with specific money set aside for hard to treat diseases such as ovarian cancer. Do you think this is a good first step in making this disease more visible and ultimately improving survival outcomes?

KW: Definitely. We talk about early detection, but we have to put the money behind it. This is a disease that the president’s own mother battled. It’s so important for us to discuss women’s health, to get involved, and to provide a support system for women affected by ovarian cancer.

CS: Celebrity endorsements are critical for awareness campaigns. They make people pay attention to something they might not otherwise consider. When did you know that you wanted to become an advocate for this disease?

KW: The reason this became so important for me is because my mom is around today as a result of early detection, and that’s something that doesn’t typically happen with ovarian cancer. We have to work toward finding some sort of early detection method. Doctors often don’t know the symptoms of ovarian cancer, which are subtle. So much of this campaign is about awareness. Next month, for breast cancer awareness, you’ll be able to buy a million pink things. The projects surrounding breast cancer opened up the dialogue, and we’re hoping to do the same around ovarian cancer. L’Oreal is a really cool family to be in. All the proceeds from the Color of Hope makeup go to the Ovarian Cancer Research Fund, and they’re all good colors.

a snapshot of my teal Tweets

Who knew a color could be so significant? This week, I found myself giving teal shout-outs on Facebook and updating my Twitter status with all sorts of teal references. I even got my nails painted “teal the cows come home” blue.

Never before has a singular shade figured this prominently in my life, but I guess that makes sense. Teal is the official ovarian cancer color, which really didn’t mean much to me until last year. My how things have changed. Now, it’s the holiest hue around.

This month, teal is especially important. September is Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month, a time when survivors and our advocates unite to educate people about the disease.

Recognizing the symptoms is undoubtedly the most important factor.  Ovarian cancer was once thought to be asymptomatic, but it turns out that most women experience bloating, pelvic or abdominal pain, difficulty eating, or feeling full quickly. The catch, though, is that by the time a woman recognizes the symptoms, the disease has likely spread or reached its later stages.

To date, there is no definitive screening test. And the five-year survival rate, a paltry 47 percent, has not changed much over the last 40 years. But if caught early, it increases to about 90 percent. Clearly, detection is critical. So is knowing your family history.

The Ovarian Cancer National Alliance, the Ovarian Cancer Research Fund, and the National Ovarian Cancer Coalition have been dedicated to getting the word out. More recently, L’Oreal launched its Color of Hope campaign to promote awareness.

My own calendar is filling up quickly with color-themed events. I’m kicking it off next week at the T.E.A.L. Walk in Brooklyn’s Prospect Park, and I’m proud to say that I’m walking as part of Team Slayer. Afterward, we’re all heading to my place for a round of tealtinis, my new favorite drink.